Just want to RANT!

Received a call from a friend of mine that night. It was already quite late, 4am. But we are not really that close so its kind of surprising that she called me. So I picked it up and she was asking me about abortion. And telling me that her bf don't want to take responsibility for the baby and blah blah..


It got me all pissed off hearing all that lor..


Its so easy for a guy to just say ,"I'm not ready to be a dad, let's go for abortion." just because they are not the one bearing the child, and they are not the one who needs to go through abortion.


What's even worse is that she mentioned that her bf says he don't ever want to get married.


Hey, if you are not planning to get married then why not you stay single, become gay or find a rich old woman who'll support you?



A guy can be old and single, still will have a lot of girls throw themselves at you, but a girl is so worthless when they are old lor.. And by saying that, do you mean that you just want to fuck and go?



I don't know why nowadays guys are getting more and more useless and cowardly. Is being responsible for your own actions so hard to do?

Its not easy to have a baby, you have to buy diapers, milk powder, bear with the cries, change the poo and pee... But not everyone who wants to have a baby, has one. So what if the guy doesn't want to be responsible? Oh, so the baby won't have a complete family? Are you not able to give him love just as much?


Going for abortion just because the baby won't have a daddy is just purely excuses.




I feel that its just old time thinking that if you are from a single parent family, you must definitely be a pai kia, a problem student. Its a love, attention and care problem not whether you are rich or poor got daddy mummy or no daddy mummy.



No one appreciates and loves you more than your own child. They have very simple thinking, and they only wants you.


They don't care whether they have bird nest to drink, new clothes to wear or even go to a top school. All these expectations is set up by us parents. What's so good about going to a top school anyway? More stress for them and it makes them arrogant because they seem much special from other kids from neighbourhood schools.



Making mistakes, is all part of life. And nowadays people are preventing their kids from making any mistakes. You don't teach them what to learn in life, but they experience and learn it themselves.



I just want to say that abortion is definitely not a way out. And guys are so not reliable anymore. So be strong ladies, we don't need to count on them.


My greatest joy in life is having Jun En and Tyler, and I guess for every parent it's their joy too.


*I'm harsh but I just find people nowadays not cherishing life as much anymore and that is disturbing..