Finally its out!!!

After hundreds of lonely years of doing what he was built for, WALL.E (short for Waste Allocation Load Lifter Earth-Class) discovers a new purpose in life when he meets a sleek search robot named EVE. EVE comes to realise that WALL.E has inadvertently stumbled upon the key to the planet's future, and races back to space to report her findings to the humans (who have been eagerly awaiting word that its safe to return home). Meanwhile, WALL.E chases EVE across the galaxy and sets into motion one of the most exciting and imaginative comedy adventures ever brought to the big screen.

Ain't WALL.E cute????

This is such a great movie!!! Although they don't have much conversations, mainly just sounds made by the robots, but its still very very nice!! Well, the most common word you'll hear will be, 'WALL.E' and 'EVE'... hahaha.. But its like so sweet lah, the love between them. Especially when WALL.E keep wanting to hold EVE's hand...

I shouldn't reveal too much ya.. So if you want to know more, go and catch it in the movies now!!!

I feel so taken for granted sometimes.............


Sometimes I wonder, what's the point of treating someone nice when they don't even seem to appreciate it??


I try NOT to take the people around me for granted and really feel thankful for everything that they do for me as I know it won't feel good to receive no appreciation. Maybe you might say that, somethings that we do, we give but don't have to expect any returns. But definitely a simple 'Thank you' or action that shows the person appreciating and aknowledgeing what you did is sweet to us right?

Story time!!!!!!!!!!!

A regards B as his 'best friend'. Best friend whenever he needs money. So every single time when A calls B its definitely because he needs money. Although there is the occasional calling B out to drink or dinner. But end of the night, A will still 'borrow' at least $50 from B. Maybe for pumping petrol, maybe for meals. One thing is, A don't gamble, and he's working a full time job that earns decently also. So why does he always needs money?? Cause he loves going to pubs and know a lot of those vietnam girls, thai girls. And I don't think those girls will be with you because you're handsome or what, everything is about money to them lor. Or maybe he knows how to make money disappear. Anyway, B, being the helpful friend he is, he always try to 'lend' the money to him. But B is not rich leh, and being a normal human being, he also have his difficult times too. So when one day B tells A that he WON'T be able to help A, A flares up and says B is not a good friend. And then, A STOP calling B.



B WAS a nice friend to A just because he helped him whenever he needs. But just because of one incident, A says that B is not a good friend. Well, what do you think of A?

A is right, since B don't want to help him, he should let go of the friendship.

If you're thinking about this, then I guess you're a person without a lot of friends. Very self-centered and selfish. It's not a MUST that someone helps you. And when they do, its not because they owe you but because they're helpful. The whole world doesn't revolves around you, wake up.




By the way, did I mention they were friends for 10 over years????




Its very rare to have good friends around you, and they are like sand, if you don't hold it properly, it'll slip away. So why not just put in more effort into your friendship and start appreciating your friends from today onwards?


Besides your family, true friends will also always be there for you, and accept you no matter how you are. You don't have to put on a false front when you're with them and even if they do criticise you, its always with the best interest.

Treat your friends the way you want them to treat you. Don't take them for granted, and appreciate the things they do for you.

Since I'm pregnant now, I figure that I should write some pregnancy topics also right???




A lot of mother-to-be are usually very worried about their pregnancy. One of the most common worries is whether they are gaining enough weight.


I see some mothers gaining 20 over kg during their pregnancy. And imagine when the baby comes out, he or she is only 3 - 4 kg.


Let's say the mother's weight is 50kg.

Before give birth : 50kg + 20kg = 70kg

After give birth : 70kg - 4kg = 66kg

Need to lose : 66kg - 50kg = 16kg !!!!

Not every woman is able to shed off 10 over kg de lor.. And STOP SAYING or EVEN THINKING that for the baby is worth it de, or being a mother is like tat de, all mothers are fat......Every woman hopes to be beautiful and have back their previous body de lor...

And the main point is, must we REALLY gain so much weight??

Usually the recommended weight gain is between 11kg - 16kg if you're not underweight or overweight. If you're underweight you're expected to gain more weight and if you're overweight to gain lesser.

Where does the weight gain go to?

Weight of average baby = 3.3kg

Extra fat during pregnancy = 2.5kg

Increase in body fluid = 2.6kg

The muscle layer of the womb grow drastically = 0.9kg

The placenta which keeps your baby nourished = 0.6kg

Increase in breasts = 0.4kg

Increase in blood volume = 1.2kg

Total weight gain = 11.5kg

Woman who do not gain enough weight, it is highly possible for you to give birth to small babies, weighing below 2.5kg. And they are usually more prone to having asthma, cough and cold and other health problems.

Gaining too much weight is also not good hor... It may cause backaches, leg cramps and varicose veins. And you may also develop hypertensiona and diabetes during pregnancy. And somemore the baby tends to be big, so its quite difficult to give birth naturally and you'll have to go for cesarean. Overweight babies will also be obese and diabetic when they grow up.

Very ma fan right??

Gaining weight, you also have to eat right. Things like those titbits, chocolates you can have them once in a while but not too much, since they will be just extra fats. More vegetables and fruits and more dairy products will be a better choice.

Don't stress yourself that you MUST gain 11kg. Even if you don't its ok. Like for me, I don't have a big tummy and my weight gain is damn little also. I only gained like 6 kg! I'm worried sometimes, whether baby will be too small. But then, if the gynae never comment then I guess everything should be fine ba.... For some woman, they don't really gain a lot of weight, even when they're pregnant!! I ever saw, on a forum, someone saying she only gained like 5kg throughout the whole pregnancy !!!! But still the baby is healthy la...

No matter what, pregnancy is the time for a woman to enjoy herself and be queen!! So preggies out there, don't keep on worrying about everything. If you have any worries, you should always speak to your gynae as I think they are the most competent to solve your problems. Enjoy!!!

I'm short hair AGAIN!!!


Kinda miss myself long hair though, but let's just wait till my OWN hair grow so long ba...


Did I mentioned, I had extensions???? The fastest way to having long hair !!!


Just for your information, extensions there's 2 kinds. One is clips and another is braiding. The last time I tried clips, but every single day I'm dropping like 1 or 2 strands of the hair. But can REUSE the hair if you keep them la.. That's why I prefer braiding. Since I'm a damn rough person also... It won't drop easily and looks more natural lor.. But the thing is your scalp will be itchy la.. Since they have to braid it tight ma.. But for beauty, its worth it !!!!


If you're interested to do extensions, can go to City Plaza, Angel Beauty and look for Minmin. The last time she do for me, I find that she really do a good job. I was there till quite late and yet she didn't rush and took her time to braid for me. And I was so guilty lor!!!


Ok, pictures time!!!!

1 last photo before removing the extensions.....

Hairdresser of the day, Gordan!! Thanks my dear!!!

The thing with removing, since I did braiding, so basically its tied on with rubber bands. So how to remove?? Just cut off the rubber bands lor!!!!!!!!

ALL my extensions... Scary right????

Let's compare..................

Before

After!!!

So different lor!!! I look so innocent now..... ya ya don't vomit la... haha.. Or maybe is because no makeup...........

Anyway, loving my new hair... next, gonna dye my hair!!!!!!!!!!!

I so so SO want to pamper myself!!!!

Want to dye hair, do my nails, and eat sushi.....

My white hair is all growing out liao lor!! I was telling Gordan think by the time I give birth, I'll be white hair lady liao.... And its tiring painting my own nails everytime, when its normally quite difficult for you to paint your right hand if you're a right-hander. And somemore I'm not like working last time at Shugar, got so many colours and stickers to choose.. Now limited!!! Want to do my pig theme also don't have piggy stickers... Sian....

If only Gordan earns 10k a month, or even 5k a month.............

But on the other hand, if a guy earns a lot, then he will like start fooling around leh... Guess I rather he don't earn so much and be faithful and love me only can liao.... haha...

So bo bian lor, just have to 'ren'!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Our day out !!!

Notice that we both seem damn shagged out right?? Basically I had sore eyes recently and both of us just woke up...

And of course, a photo of me!!!

Gordan brought me to eat 'lor mee'. At somewhere NEAR bugis, since we're going there after that.

Normally 'lor mee' that you eat outside is sticky sticky, brown sauce de right? But this is different, its white! And a lot of ingredients inside lor.. Got meat, prawn, sotong, vegetables, 'tau pok' and etc.... We ordered other side dishes also, like the 'la-la' is damn nice, a bit spicy but overall is the dish that I like the most. Then the fried fish, taste good la, but maybe better if you are eating rice or porridge. And the prawn paste chicken, has quite a heavy taste, for me I don't really like it lor.. But maybe different people different opinion ba..

We were too hungry!!! haha... so finished up everything then I remembered, "ya hor, haven't take picture!" Then as I was taking this picture, Gordan was saying,

"Other people take before they eat then you take when we finish everything.."



Hahaha... But basically everything was damn nice la.. And its not cheap also.. We 2 person eat also $36 like tat liao...



Remember I said, weekend I going to bring Gordan to see the banana wallet?? Showed him then he like no reaction and no opinion, so end up never buy lor.. But I bought my chinese storybooks again!!

I'm totally CRAZY over this author lor, Shen Xue. From the first time I read the books she wrote, I'm addicted.

The way she wrote those storylines, it's totally not boring lor, and somemore its like after reading the books, it will really set you thinking about the reason in it. About love, about relationships... And some parts its damn funny lor!! haha.. I still remember the times when I burst out laughing while reading the books, and I was outside!! So paiseh lor...


I'm setting up my collection liao, of ALL her books!! Told Gordan next time pass on to our son to read, then can brush up his chinese... Cause I just can't stand those people who can't even speak chinese properly. English is universal, but chinese should be the basic right??


I'm even going to buy those plastic thing to wrap up the books le lor... I'm too free liao..


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Something has been going through my mind lately. Seeing all my friends getting their diplomas and some going to degree, I'm really so envy them.


I DON'T regret quitting school, cause I know I wouldn't have the heart to study. But after so many years of fooling around, having fun and going through so many things, finally I'm settled down enough to want to study again.


But too bad, I don't have a rich dad or grandma or whoever. And I don't want to rely on them to pay for something that I gave up before. Myself, still have so many things unknown. Don't even think I'll EVER have spare cash to study. Maybe if I have, it'll be when I'm 30 ba... hahah.... And I'm not going to take O'levels when I'm 30 years old lor..


But on the other hand, I want to be a housewife leh. Ya, HOUSEWIFE. So even if I get a diploma, what use would it do me?? Somemore, out of so many courses, I'm ONLY interested in accounting. I love money ma!!! If I go for accounting and I become a housewife then I guess I will only use it when I go market buy groceries liao.. haha..


Not that I hate working, but I would rather be home and spending time with my child and educating him, building up his character. And when night comes, cook dinner and wait for Gordan to come home.


That's my dream, a life that I longed to lead.


So, even if I go study, it will only be I got too much money don't know spend where, cause I won't be working even if I got the certificate..


Hmmm... Guess I can only be dreaming and dreaming and dreaming ba...

All the nightmares, I finally know what they meant..........


I'm not afraid of you loving another girl, but I'm afraid you'll stop loving me.



And that's how much you meant to me..

I feel like the happiest girl in this world, just because I've got you.

Happy, happy and happy!!!!

Remember I mentioned Gordan is going to go out tonight with his colleagues to drink again??

Well, he pushed it off, just to accompany me!!!!

And I told him I am so going to write this entry to compliment him lor... hahahha...

At Carl's Jr!!

Notice why everything is fried and there isn't any burgers?? Not because we don't eat burgers but because they ran out of bread!!! Can you believe that?? Anyway the food there is not bad la, but WE WANT TO EAT THE BURGER LOR!!! Gordan ask me to take this picture de... Say post on my blog cause rarely you'll encounter fast food restaurant run out of bread... haha

Next up, movie time!!!

Me and Wall.E!!

Ok, ugly picture of me. Look damn fat lor!!! I asked Gordan to take with it de, but guess my dear is just too 'shy' ba... So he got me to take picture with it.. Its like damn cute lah!! Somemore see the trailer, its like damn funny also.. Gonna watch it with Gordan when it comes out!! And heard that the whole show there's no conversation lor, only sounds that the machines makes... Interesting!!

Meet Dave

The show we watched tonight!! Quite nice ba, since I won't find it too long winded yet there's a lot of funny parts.. Have to admit, Eddie Murphy is a real good comedy actor lor...

Its been a great night for me, although we didn't do anything much....

Just feeling how Gordan is making the effort for me makes all my anger disappear liao.... Girls are always so easy to coax right?? Just treat them a bit caring, a bit sweet then they'll do ANYTHING for you liao.. But only applies if the girl really love you a lot hor!! So those guys don't anyhow use this way to cheat girl's feelings.. We are fragile too!!

Gordan isn't a very romantic person. But I still remember I told him before, "Its ok, you not romantic I romantic can liao.." Hahaha.. But he don't really sweet talk and do sweet stuff, so when he really do anything I know that its from the bottom of his heart. Maybe that's why I fall so madly for him ba..

Message for my love.......

I know you are the one that I want, the only one I need, whom I can love and feel loved.

I love you, as much as before and more and more as the days pass.

Sometimes you just can't trust your eyes.............

Nowadays it just keeps raining and raining and raining.... So troublesome to go out and yet can't be sleeping the whole day...


I went out ALONE yesterday!!!


Not far lah, went to Eastpoint for SUSHI!!!!!

Bill was about $20 plus but ok la, since long time I never eat liao.. Those sushi you buy from NTUC de and going to restuarant eat is different de ok... Luckily there's not many people, or it'll seem weird I eating alone right??

Me waiting for food (damn hungry, cause didn't have lunch)

So, meanwhile... take more photos!!

Kinda weird though cos I'm alone... hahaha

After that went to walk around then went to Popular and saw this baby name book. But look through all the names inside, I still don't find any names that I think is nice and suitable... Lousy book..... Saw another book also, Invisible Trade 2. I got the first one and its quite interesting. Talks about prostitution in Singapore, those social escorts and all that. But one book $20 and somemore I know I will finish it within 1 hr de... So in the end I didn't buy..


But I went to buy my fake eyelashes and makeup remover!!! It seems like I only will spend on little little stuff lor.. Although Gordan give me the money to ask me go shop. But ask me buy I only want to buy things for him... Hahahha...


Finally walk finish then went to meet Su wen at her house. While she was preparing, I was watching the tv and got this 7pm show. Its quite a lousy show la, cause all the actor and actress not famous de den their acting and language sucks.. But got one part damn romantic la.. The girl was given a simple wedding then she not very happy. Then the guy at night bring her to church, let her dress in the gown she wants, then took vows there. So SWEET!!! haha ... But for me, I don't want church wedding lah.. I WANT MY BEACH/POOLSIDE WEDDING!!!


My dream wedding : Just me and my man at a private island. With the sun setting, and just 2 of us taking the vows.


Simple right??


I've gone through before with all the dinner and stuff and its damn tiring lah.. Your wedding is about you and your husband ma. Then still need to entertain those people that you don't know, I rather just having friends that can talk with and they know you, you know them de lor...


Back to yesterday, met up with Tiffany and Qi Huan at 85. I really missed the times when we were always hanging out together and going to Qi Huan's place for Ktv and dance lor... It was so fun la!! Then now they also very good wor, Qi Huan taking her diploma and Tiffany taking her degree... ENVY!!! Somemore they both took child phsycology (dunno spell correct ma), something I want to take.


Anyway, Gordan NOT accompanying me today liao... SOB SOB!!!!!


He got things to do at work and somemore got mobilisation......

Random photo of the Mr

All my plans for buying wallet and all that need to wait till tomorrow le lor... And somemore he didn't go out yesterday. So TONIGHT he's going to drink. Fuck, I'm so irritated.

Although I love clubbing and I do drink, but I hate to see my bf drink. Weird right?? Cause everytime he's back he's drunk. I hate seeing guys getting wasted lor...

Lonely day today again, haiz... think I gonna sleep later.....

Finally I get to go out liao... Been stuck at home for so many days, since Gordan is busy working and going out with his colleagues. I can't drink now so tagging along would make me seem very extra. I did went out these few days lah, but only met Su wen talk cock at the coffeeshop under her block. Somemore I went there till the 7-11 guy also know me... *paiseh*

All dressed up and ready to go to town!!!

Silly face in the cab (I was too happy..haha)

I went to pick Su wen up then we went to Golden Mile cause she need to go buy the coach ticket since she monday gonna go to KL again!!! Sian, no one to accompany me for that few days again... Anyway then we walked to Lavender MRT, cause we're going to Bugis and also as typical housewife-to-be, we want to save money ma... Along the way, saw Police Post wanted to go change the address on my IC de, but then the policeman was saying now if you want to change address you have to bring your letter there. Like electrical bills or what de... I was like, "Do I look like I will have electrical bill?" Knn, can't change again. And don't know is I sensitive or what but how come all the policeman seem like so damn attitude de ar.. Like we owe them like that.. Being a policeman is also a service to the public right??

Then we went to Bugis walk around while waiting for Tiffany.

Tiffany was our secondary school friend. And its been a long time since we had been in contact liao.. So HAPPY will be seeing her again.. As a lot of people know, I have very few girl friends, so I try to cherish as much as I can. And Su wen was telling me its our fault that she didn't contact us for so long cause last time we keep making fun of her.

Sorry girl, but we never meant it with any harm. And we had always thought that you are a damn cute and sweet gal.

Its been AGES since we took neoprints liao...

Designed by Tiffany!!

Paiseh ar, I don't have camera. All the pictures is taken by phone so will a bit blur blur. You want clearer pictures, send me a camera!!!! hahah... just kidding....



Anyway I spend money again!!!



Everytime go out with Su wen SURE will spend one lor... Basically we are like,

Su wen : "I feel like buying that leh.."

Me : "Orh, then buy lor.."

Su wen : "hmmm....."

(next moment paying liao...)

Its like RARELY we will discourage each other from buying something. Unless that thing is damn ugly or not worth the price. So you see why I always spend money when I'm with her. and she too!!

My new wallet.. SO CUTE right??

There's this new row of shops opened at Lvl 3 Bugis Junction. And we saw this shop selling a lot of cute things when we were walking pass. Then went in then saw this wallet!! And its only $9.90 lor..haha.. The sales assistants de service also very good, just that maybe over enthusiastic ba... My wallet is getting spoiled soon, the skin is starting to peel and finding a wallet I like is so hard lor...

The wallet I'm using NOW......

Been using this for like 1 yr plus liao lor... Bought from Thailand. Thailand things are cheap right?? But I buy this wallet, still paid about SGD$30!! But damn nice material lah.. I was telling Gordan I don't mind paying that much for this wallet cause at least the Hello Kitty looks like a Hello Kitty. Some shops I see selling Hello Kitty stuff de they always look damn fake to me lor...


But I went back show to Gordan he kept nagging say why I don't buy a normal wallet. But this type is convenient ma... You just dump everything inside and somemore its SMALL!! And I like cute stuff!! Say me childish lor, I don't care!! Conclusion, he is going with me to Bugis this weekend to buy the other 'banana' wallet I saw!! Hahahaha.....

I bought nail polishes too!!!

Highly recommended!! Faceshop de nail polishes. Firstly its damn cheap!! Only $2.90! And the there are a lot of colours and the polishes are easy to paint too!! Ok, I'm like totally NUTS about nail polishes and nail arts de.....

My own collection of nail polishes...

Not much liao now.. Since last time work in Shugar bring a lot there then never bring back. But IT WILL INCREASE DE!! haha...

I was so touched yesterday lah!! Gordan pass me money ask me to use it to buy something for myself since its been a long time since I shopped. But on the other hand I was like thinking, could it be he did something wrong then so good to me de?? But never mind la, I trust him.. LOVE YOU DEAR!!!

P.S : Seems like my post today is so full of pictures and words hor...Sorry!! I'm more talkative today lah!! *blush*

Forgive + Forget = Happiness

Sometimes in life we tend to face confrontation or quarrels with other people. When we're young, we quarrel with our best friend over toys and ended up saying, "I don't friend you liao." But comes to the next day, we would STILL be going off to play together. Of course, when a person grows up, things become much complicated. Some quarrels DON'T solve themselves overnight. And because of that usually we make more enemies than friends.

Seriously, if everyone was able to let go of the anger, the hatred then won't the world be a better place??


I've had my own share of things that I weren't able to let go of before. Like how I once hated Phillip so much for him taking the baby. By the way, Phillip is my ex-husband. But after sometime I began to THINK about our relationship before. Both of us were at fault and that caused our marriage to FAIL. We were too young that time thus a lot of things said and done is mostly in a fit of anger. But what is done cannot be undo liao... But realising that, it sort of bring a release to me because I know that I no longer will hate him anymore.


Its tired hating someone, you know. We only have that many years to live, why make it so hard for ourselves and be so full of anger? Its better to have more friends than foes right?


Maybe you may feel that, you don't have any fault why should you be the one to give in? If that person is fucked up, and he or she doesn't realise his or her mistake, then just HACK CARE about them. Treat it as you never knew the person. But if that person is willing to apologise to you, admit his or her mistake, then why not give that person a chance?


Having hatred is only a form of torture for yourself. Sometimes letting go ain't that bad.

To be able to forgive and forget is the first step towards gaining happiness.

I wish all of you happiness, always.